We specialise in family mediation and divorce mediation to help you through challenging times

Serving clients in Berkshire, Oxfordshire, Wiltshire, Hampshire and nationwide, our experienced mediators for divorce and family law are here to support you.

We know that facing familial disputes or thinking about separation can be really tough. That’s why we provide a friendly, confidential space where you can have meaningful conversations and find solutions that work for everyone.

Contact us to see how our affordable nationwide service can help you fix problems now.

 

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“Jeremy is the best mediator I have ever worked with. His professionalism is unmatched — he skillfully balances the need to reach solutions efficiently while ensuring that the most important priorities for both sides are respected. Through his calm, constructive, and firm-but-fair approach, he helped me and my ex-partner move from conflict to a truly positive and supportive co-parenting relationship. I deeply appreciated his responsiveness, his ability to challenge both sides when needed, and his talent for guiding us toward an outcome we could embrace with peace of mind.”
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What is family mediation?

Family mediation is a process where a neutral, qualified family law mediator helps family members talk through their issues and reach agreements. This can cover all sorts of things – from sorting out parenting arrangements and finances to dividing property and resolving other family conflicts.

Whether you’re just starting to explore your options or you’re stuck in the middle of a dispute, we’re here to help.

How divorce mediation can help

Divorce mediation is a positive alternative to going to court. It’s usually less stressful and more budget-friendly. By working with our experienced divorce mediation mediators, you stay in control of what happens, rather than leaving it up to a judge.

We’re good at calming down tense situations, making sure everyone’s voice is heard, and creating a step-by-step process that works for the whole family – especially children.

 

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“This is just a brief note to share with you my absolute and sincere gratitude for your wisdom, pragmatism, professionalism and guidance. I would absolutely recommend you to others. Thanks for everything Kate. You made a huge positive impact on us all.”
(Mr F, Berkshire)
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How we can help you

Putting kids first:
We know how tough family changes can be on children. Our parenting mediation services help you keep their needs at the heart of all your discussions, and work out practical, affordable parenting plans. We can even give you tips on how to talk to your kids about what’s happening.

Sorting out finances:
Understanding your money situation is crucial when you’re separating. We’ll guide you through sharing information and looking at different angles, helping you reach fair agreements that work long-term. If needed, we can work with lawyers and financial advisors to make sure everything’s sorted properly.

More than just divorce:
We don’t just help with divorce and separation mediation. We also offer mediation for pre-nuptial agreements, living together agreements and disputes between couples who aren’t married. Our marriage mediators and couples mediation experts can help with whatever your family situation is.

Flexible and easy to access:
We know every family is different. That’s why we offer mediation both in-person (in Southern England) and online (anywhere in the UK or internationally).

 

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“Great experience working with Kate from Prefix. Practical and knowledgeable advice, taking into account specific circumstances and complexities surrounding my case. Kate is discreet, professional and positive and was a great help for me on what felt at times a very difficult journey.”
Alexandra Smith (June 2025)
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Serving clients in Berkshire, Oxfordshire, Wiltshire and Hampshire, we help you be more in control of some of the most important conversations of your life.

Contact us to see how our affordable nationwide service can help you fix problems now.

 

Divorce & Family Mediation FAQs

Why choose mediation?

Family mediation can save you loads of time and money compared to going to court. It lets you stay in control of what happens, rather than leaving it up to a judge. Plus, the solutions you come up with in mediation tend to work better in the long run, which means fewer arguments down the line.

At Prefix Mediation, we’re all about helping families find their way through tricky times with understanding and expertise. Why not get in touch today to chat about how our family mediation and divorce mediation services could help you move forward?

What are the grounds for divorce?

Since April 2022, “no-fault divorce” means the only ground is that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. There’s no need to prove blame or fault, making the process less confrontational for both parties.

How long does a divorce take?

A straightforward divorce takes at least six months. Resolving finances or child arrangements can take longer. Mediation often helps couples reach agreements faster and with less stress.

What is the process for obtaining a divorce?

Apply online (solely or jointly), submit your marriage certificate, and wait 20 weeks before applying for a conditional order. After a further six weeks, you can apply for the final order, which legally ends the marriage.

What is the court fee for filing a divorce application?

The court fee is currently £612 (as of June 2025). This fee is separate from any legal or mediation costs you may have.

What happens if we separate while cohabiting (not married)?

Cohabiting couples do not have the same legal rights as married couples. Financial claims depend on property law or agreements. If you have children, you may claim financial support for them under the Children Act.

Is mediation legally binding?

Mediation agreements aren’t automatically legally binding, but you can apply to court for a consent order to make them enforceable.

Who pays for mediation?

Costs are usually shared, but you can agree otherwise. Legal aid may be available if you qualify.

Do I need a solicitor if I use mediation?

You don’t have to, but legal advice is recommended, especially before making agreements legally binding.

  • Children

    At times, it is hard to think clearly about what the children need. We help you do that and try to help you keep them in mind throughout all discussions. We help you decide on the best parenting arrangements for them that are affordable. We work with you so you can communicate with them about what is going on in your relationship.

  • Finances

    We guide you through a process so that you share information and your perspectives and you can start to understand and build separate financial lives. We work with lawyers and financial advisers where that will help. We work with you to discuss and negotiate an outcome that will stand the test of time.

  • Other

    Increasingly, family mediation is proving its worth in a range of other family related issues such as: the negotiation of pre-nuptial agreements, co-habitation agreements and the separation of co-habiting couples by offering a flexible and cost effective solution that can be offered to clients in a time critical way.

  • “I had been being threatened with legal action by a large energy company for over a year. I didn’t want to involve lawyers and I definitely didn’t want the case to end up in the courts.  I reached out to Jeremy to seek his help on how best to negotiate with them. Jeremy came up with a practical plan and walked me through all its stages and discussed probable outcomes and various scenarios, which gave me a lot of comfort. He was professional, very supportive and confident in how we should speak and correspond with the company. The company ended up withdrawing their claim and dropping the case. If it wasn’t for Jeremy I would most likely end up in a stressful court case and with huge legal bills. With him I got the outcome I wanted in a surprisingly short time and with little cost.”

    DB, London

  • Jeremy is the best mediator I have ever worked with.

    His professionalism is unmatched — he skilfully balances the need to reach solutions efficiently while ensuring that the most important priorities for both sides are respected.

    Through his calm, constructive, and firm-but-fair approach, he helped me and my ex-partner move from conflict to a truly positive and supportive co-parenting relationship.

    I deeply appreciated his responsiveness, his ability to challenge both sides when needed, and his talent for guiding us toward an outcome we could all embrace with peace of mind.

    JK, Oxfordshire

    JK

  • “Prefix Mediation was suggested as a way to resolve a long term ongoing domestic partnership and property dispute issue. We were stuck with no way forward and had been for many years.

    Jeremy brought new ideas and suggestions to the process and gradually throughout the day we started to make progress and both of us were becoming comfortable with the agreed solution. It did take all day, but we got there in the end and both parties were pleased with the outcome. Personally I was happy to have a solution after so many years and pleased that it was all done and dusted in one session.

    I would strongly recommend this way forward, with Prefix Mediation, for anybody with really difficult issues to resolve.”

    MP, Berkshire

  • “My wife was not confident to talk to me about money. With Kate, she could talk and develop ideas and it made her feel so much more confident and on an equal footing. This brought huge relief to us both and a sense that we could get there.”

    Mr B

  • It’s been many months but I thought you may be interested in where the [F family] are. I have no idea if it’s of interest however I thought, since you were so instrumental in helping us get through the initial conversations, it would be worth sharing with you. So that you know the impact you have had on various very satisfactory outcomes.

    [W] and I get on very well. We chat most nights and [daughter] remains our focus.

    So – just to let you know we have almost got to a very satisfactory situation. Which would not have been the case had you not. It took time and patience but it was absolutely worth your time and effort.

    This is just a brief note to share with you my absolute and sincere gratitude for your wisdom, pragmatism, professionalism, and guidance.

    Would absolutely recommend you to others. Thanks for everything Kate. You made a huge positive impact on us all.

    Mr F

  • “I was not sure about mediation at all. But during the meetings I could see how Kate was making things possible and it made things so much easier. Kate warned us that the beginning might be frustrating (which it was) but we reached an agreement in the end and I am very grateful.”

    Mr K

  • “I can’t thank Kate enough and I will always be grateful for her wisdom and guidance through a very hard time. She calmly and practically helped us step by step and stopped me from feeling overwhelmed.”

    Mrs L

  • “Our business was facing difficult and potentially damaging litigation.
    We embarked on mediation and  I benefited enormously from Jeremy’s experience and invaluable support throughout the process. He helped us prepare thoroughly so we had the best chance of a successful outcome.
    Ultimately, we found a settlement that brought an end to the litigation, minimised disruption and avoided serious consequences for the company. Jeremy’s involvement was key to this.”

    Steven Bowen, CEO Minerva Group